Nowadays, increasingly singles and couples are tired of conservative and dull sexual routine. Threesome is fancied by more people than you imagine. According to Forbes, one in seven Americans have had threesomes and one in five find them appealing. Threesome is considered as taboo for some, while as an unreachable dream for many. A great threesome experience can be a wonderful spice-up for life, no matter you are couple or single. However, if you play it wrong, it can totally be a disaster for your relationship. There are many precautions need to be took into consideration. Here are the tips.
Prepare your partner
Before you jump right into the unknown threesome waters, take swimming lessons first. Take baby steps. Star by sharing your fantasy about a threesome with your partner. In this way, you can see his/her first reaction, besides, your brains actually go through the same mental process. If you are still feeling insecure about how far you can handle, take it easy. You don't have to go all the way the first time you hookup. You can dip a toe into the threesome waters by having a make out or cuddle session before doing anything more serious. Check in with your partner and see how you each feel and whether or not you want to take the next step. If you are still unsure whether or not you want to try it, ask yourself the following questions:
Can you actually do this or think about it when you are not horny? If you can't, then chances are pretty high that you are not yet ready for it.
Do both of you talk about having threesome sex, or is it just one of you? If it is just one of you, then you guys are probably not ready yet.
Safety first---physically
Discuss sexual history and practice safe sex. It might seem unsexy, but it is totally not. Do not ever be embarrassed to ask what you need to do in order to find out what you need to know before having sex with someone.
Want to make it epic? Be present
Once you found your unicorn and it is really going to happen, adrenaline might rush through your veins. You might sweat. Your heart might be pumping like crazy. But be present anyways. Open your eyes and take it all in. Treat this as a meditation and stay with the sensations, tastes, smells and sounds. The more open and present you are, the more you will inspire your partners to be. The more present you, the higher the sexual energy will be and the more intense this experience will be for all of you. Don't worry about getting it right, just let it all unfold naturally. If the excitement speeds you up too much, pause. Settle into your body and breathe.
The beauty of such experiences is that we discover new things about ourselves, and about life itself. Therefore, stay open to the gifts that your sexuality has to offer.